‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ■ John 13:34-35 New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■ 34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. ■ 35 By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

■ Jean 13:34-35 La Bible du Semeur (BDS) ■ 34 Je vous donne un commandement nouveau: Aimez-vous les uns les autres. Oui, comme je vous ai aimés, aimez-vous les uns les autres. ■ 35 A ceci, tous reconnaîtront que vous êtes mes disciples: à l’amour que vous aurez les uns pour les autres.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 Your 1st ‘REAL’ relationship is always your relationship with God!

Votre première relation "RÉELLE (VRAI)" est toujours votre relation avec Dieu!

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ■ Luke 10:27 New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■ 27 And he answered, “YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND; AND YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.”

■ Luc 10:27 La Bible du Semeur (BDS) ■ 27 … Il lui répondit: Tu aimeras le Seigneur ton Dieu, de tout ton cœur, de toute ton âme, de toute ton énergie et de toute ta pensée, et ton prochain comme toimême.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 What does ‘REAL’ mean? ■ Real = – true; not false – apparent: existing or occurring as fact; – actual rather than imaginary, ideal, or fictitious: – genuine; sincere, complete, – something that actually exists, existing or occurring in the physical world; not imaginary, or theoretical;

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 What does ‘Relationship’ mean? ■ Relationship = – a connection, association, or involvement. – connection between persons by blood or marriage. – an emotional or other connection between people: – the mutual dealings, connections, or feelings that exist between two parties, countries, people, etc.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 A ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP is: – A true, genuine, sincere, existing connection, association, or involvement, between persons – by blood, marriage, emotions or the mutual dealings, or feelings that is actual rather than imaginary, ideal, or fictitious: – that actually exists, existing or occurring in the physical world;

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #1 :… is with GOD! WHY? BROKEN IDENTITY

POURQUOI? IDENTITÉ BRISÉ

■ Ephesians 4:17-18 New American Standard Bible (NASB)

■ Éphésiens 4:17-18 Segond 21 (SG21)

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17 So

this I say, and affirm together with the Lord, that you walk no longer just as the Gentiles also walk, in the futility of their mind, 18 being darkened in their understanding, excluded from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the hardness of their heart;

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17 Voici

donc ce que je dis et ce que j'affirme dans le Seigneur: vous ne devez plus vous conduire comme les noncroyants, qui se laissent guider par la sottise de leurs pensées. 18 Ils ont l'intelligence obscurcie, ils sont étrangers à la vie de Dieu à cause de l'ignorance qui est en eux, à cause de l'endurcissement de leur cœur.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #1 :… is with GOD! WHY ? TO LIVE IN ‘REAL’ IDENTITY

■ Ephesians 4:23-24 New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■

23 and

that you be renewed in the spirit of your mind, 24 and put on the new self, which in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of the truth.

POURQUOI ? A FIN DE VIVRE ’LA VRAIE’ IDENTITÉ

■ Éphésiens 4:2324 Segond 21 (SG21) ■

23 à

vous laisser renouveler par l'Esprit dans votre intelligence 24 et à vous revêtir de l'homme nouveau, créé selon Dieu dans la justice et la sainteté que produit la vérité.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #1 :… is with GOD! POURQUOI ? LE JUGEMENT À VENIR

WHY ? COMING JUDGEMENT ■ ■

Revelation 20:11-15 New American Standard Bible (NASB) 11 Then

I saw a great white throne and Him who sat upon it, from whose [a]presence earth and heaven fled away, and no place was found for them. 12 And I saw the dead, the great and the small, standing before the throne, and [b]books were opened; and another [c]book was opened, which is the book of life; and the dead were judged from the things which were written in the [d]books, according to their deeds. 13 And the sea gave up the dead which were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead which were in them; and they were judged, every one of them according to their deeds. 14 Then death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. This is the second death, the lake of fire. 15 And if [e]anyone’s name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire.

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Apocalypse 20:11-15Segond 21 (SG21)

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11 Je

vis alors un grand trône blanc et celui qui y était assis. La terre et le ciel s'enfuirent loin de lui et l’on ne trouva plus de place pour eux. 12 Je vis les morts, les grands et les petits, debout devant le trône. Des livres furent ouverts. Un autre livre fut aussi ouvert: le livre de vie. Les morts furent jugés conformément à leurs œuvres, d'après ce qui était écrit dans ces livres. 13 La mer rendit les morts qu’elle contenait, la mort et le séjour des morts rendirent aussi leurs morts, et chacun fut jugé conformément à sa manière d’agir. 14 Puis la mort et le séjour des morts furent jetés dans l'étang de feu. L’étang de feu, c'est la seconde mort. 15 Tous ceux qui ne furent pas trouvés inscrits dans le livre de vie furent jetés dans l'étang de feu.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #1 :… is with GOD! POURQUOI ? LE JUGEMENT À VENIR

WHY ? COMING JUDGEMENT

■ 2 Corinthians 5:10 - New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■

10 For

we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may be recompensed for [a]his deeds in the body, according to what he has done, whether good or bad.

■ 2 Corinthiens 5:10 - Segond 21 (SG21) ■

10 En

effet, il nous faudra tous comparaître devant le tribunal de Christ afin que chacun reçoive le salaire de ce qu’il aura fait, bien ou mal, alors qu’il était dans son corps.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #2 :… is with YOURSELF! POURQUOI ?

WHY?

■ Luke 10:27 New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■

27 And

he answered, “YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND; AND YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.”

■ Luc 10:27 Segond 21 (SG21) ■

27 Il

répondit: «Tu aimeras le Seigneur, ton Dieu, de tout ton cœur, de toute ton âme, de toute ta force et de toute ta pensée, et ton prochain comme toi-même.»

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #2 :… is with YOURSELF! SO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF TO HAVE ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS.

■ Hebrews 12:12-13 New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■

12 Therefore,

strengthen the hands that are weak and the knees that are feeble, 13 and make straight paths for your feet, so that the limb which is lame may not be put out of joint, but rather be healed.

PRENDS SOIN DE TOI-MÊME A FIN DE VIVRE DES ‘VRAI’ RELATIONS?

■ Hébreux 12:12-13 Segond 21 (SG21) ■

12 Fortifiez

donc vos mains défaillantes et vos genoux flageolants[a] 13 et faites des voies droites pour vos pieds[b], afin que ce qui est boiteux ne se démette pas mais plutôt soit guéri.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #2 :… is with YOURSELF!

WHY ?

POURQUOI ?

■ Hebrews 12:14 New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■

14 Pursue

peace with all

men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord.

■ Hébreux 12:14 Segond 21 (SG21) ■

14 Recherchez

la paix

avec tous et la progression dans la sainteté: sans elle, personne ne verra le Seigneur.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #2 :… is with YOURSELF!

■ Strengthen yourself by keeping on the right path, and aiming to live in peace with everyone. Hebrews 12:12-14

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #2 :… is with YOURSELF! ■ Luke 10:27 New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■

27 And

he answered,

“YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND; AND YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.”

■ Luc 10:27 La Bible du Semeur (BDS) ■

27 …

Il lui répondit: Tu aimeras le Seigneur ton Dieu, de tout ton cœur, de toute ton âme, de toute ton énergie et de toute ta pensée, et ton prochain comme toimême.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #2 :… is with YOURSELF! COMMENT BÄTIR DE ‘VRAIES’ RELATIONS avec les autres?

HOW TO BUILD REAL RELATIONSHIPS with Others ?

■ Hebrews 12:16 New American Standard Bible (NASB) ■

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■ Hébreux 12:15 Segond 21 (SG21) à ce que personne ne se prive de la grâce de Dieu, à ce qu'aucune racine d'amertume, produisant des rejetons, ne cause du trouble et que beaucoup n’en soient infectés.

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16 Veillez

15 See

to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled; 16 that

there be no immoral or godless person like Esau, who sold his own birthright for a single meal.

15 Veillez

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à ce qu’aucun de vous ne fasse preuve d’immoralité sexuelle ou ne se montre profanateur comme Esaü, qui pour un seul repas a vendu son droit d'aînesse.

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIPS – PART #2 ‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #2 :… is with OTHERS! WHY ? share the Grace of God

Pourquoi ?, partager la grace de Dieu?

■ IF we don’t share it the possible effects are:

■ Si nous ne le partageons pas, les effets possibles sont:

■ … a root of bitterness may spring up causing trouble,…

■ ... une racine d'amertume peut surgir causant des ennuis, ... Causant la trouble.

■ … and by it many may be defiled;

■ ... et par cela beaucoup peuvent être souillés (en soient infectés)

‘REAL’ RELATIONSHIP #3: … is with OTHERS! HOW TO BUILD REAL RELATIONSHIPS with Others?

■ BE MORALLY HEALTHY! – concerned with the pr inciples or rules of rig ht conduct or the distinc tion between right and wr ong; ethical ■ BE GOD-CENTERED!

Comment bâtir des ‘vrais’ relations avec les autres?

■ SOYEZ MORALEMENT SAIN! ■ SOYEZ DIEU CENTRÉE!