The M3 Model B
A
I
C
E
I
S
A sexual relationship between two people, of any length, tends to follow these stages: Courtship
Sexual Relationship
Break-up
The courtship is made up of three stages: Courtship
Sexual Relationship
Break-up
Attract
Comfort & Trust
Seduce
A
C
S
Including and after first meeting the target, it normally takes 4 to 10 hours of time with her to build enough comfort, connection, and trust in order to have sex. This is an average of 7 hours per successful set. The Field teaches us this. In addition to the 7 Hours guideline, The Field also shows us that Venue Changes are extremely important in order to build comfort. The more physical locations I visit with the target, the more she views the two of us as being “together.” Changing physical locations is also important for practical matters when progressing towards sexual intercourse. The three types of venue changes are:
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- Isolation
B
- Time Bridge
E
- Extraction
As you are gaming the target, as her emotional state becomes hooked and your value grows in her eyes, she will permit you to progress to increasing levels of escalation. Whenever the time comes to escalate, you should do so - the window is not open forever. Venue changes are thus a necessary part of successful gaming.
I
- Isolation
Moving a girl to a different area in such a way that the two of you are isolated together. This is not a new venue, just a change in the existing venue, such as moving from the bar to an isolated table together. Often this step also involves separating a girl from her group.
B
- Time Bridge
Sometimes it is not possible to escalate. Perhaps some outside factor requires you to exchange contact information and continue gaming the girl at a later time and place. This is called a Bridge. As with all bridges, it is necessary to have something on the other side for the two of you to do together at some imagined time in the future.
E
- Extraction
You and the girl exit the current venue together, and go to a different venue together.
B
A
I
Multiple Dating Loop
C
I
E
Multiple Venue Loop
S
Diagram of Solid Game Comfort is usually the most important, and longest -lasting phase. It will not only result in a high lay ratio, but also a higher percentage of girls will be interested in having repeated sex after that point, thus beginning the Sexual and Emotional Relationship . As this is usually the goal, success requires Solid Game. It is possible to lay many girls without solid game. For example, often a player can neglect the comfort phase and still have one -night stands. Especially if the player is persistent, plays the numbers, and doesn ’t make common mistakes such as qualifying himself or being a dork. These lays are known as Fool ’s Mate. If you play the game regularly, fool’s mate will occur from time to time. Humans breed. Unfortunately, many girls will refuse repeated sex after fool’s mate, either due to buyer ’s remorse or because she simply classified it as a one -night stand, and decided she wasn ’t interested in anything more. Perhaps she was just on vacation.
What is the structure of a successful courtship?
Courtship
Attract
A1
A2
A3
Sexual Relationship
Break-up
Comfort & Trust
Seduce
C1
C2
C3
S1
S2
S3
A1 – Open
C1 – Rapport
S1 – Arousal
A2 – F2M (Attract)
C2 – Friendship
S2 – Last -Minute Resistance
A3 – M2F (Qualify)
C3 – Intimacy
S3 – Sex
B
A1 A2 A3
Pick-Up
I
C1 C2 C3
I
S1 S2 S3
End-Game E
Mid-Game A player with tight game will approach with neutral rapport and will appear not-needy and not-creepy. He will raise his social value relative to the target and intensify her emotional state. Then he will build comfort, connection, and trust while simultaneously compelling her to qualify herself to him and earn his affections. Finally, he isolates the target to a seduction venue, overcomes any last-minute resistance, and has sex with her.
Location Examples B Meet for Sushi
A1 A2 A3
Bar
I
C1
Quiet Area of Bar
C2
LateNight Diner
E
C3
I
Living Room
S1 S2 S3
Bedroom
Typical Courtship Plot
B
A1 A2 A3
I
C1
C2
C3
I
S1 S2 S3
End-Game
Pick-Up E
Mid-Game
Alternate Plot
B
A1 A2
I
A3 C1
C2
E
C3
I
S1 S2 S3