Gold Star Interview

INTERVIEWS WITH GOLD STAR DATING STUDENTS

Gold Star Interview #1

Marius Panzarella © 2004, ebook by truegossiper, All Rights Reserved

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Interview #1 Note: This is a new series of interviews that I am starting for my readers. If I receive enough positive responses from my readers, I will turn this series into a more regular project. (Like a bi-monthly or even monthly free publication of interviews.) Basically, it all depends on YOUR feedback. Marius: Tell us a little bit about yourself...like the history of your love life. Michael: Well I’m a 27-year-old freelance programmer. I got out of college a couple of years ago and right now I mainly do contracts that I’ve won on elance or rent-acoder.com. I do have a few stable clients now so I haven’t been bidding as much on elance in the past year or so. I love the freelancing lifestyle. It allows me to have more free time to do the things I really enjoy, such as playing squash and meeting women. In a way, I think I am doing all the things I never got to do in high school and college. I used to be a big geek back when I was younger. In high school I fell in love with my best friend. She was a cute blonde girl with beautiful eyes and a lovely smile. Her name was Jenny. Whenever she was single, we would have lunch together everyday. Of course, I kept my feelings to myself and never did anything about it. I would just get really sad every time I saw her getting a new boyfriend… After high school, she went out of state for college so I never saw her again for a long time. She didn’t have email back then so I didn’t even get to email her or anything. We talked on the phone twice, though. During my first two years of college, I put all my focus onto school and my part-time job. I didn’t have much of a 2 Copyright 2004 - Marius Panzarella - All Rights Reserved

social life at all. It was always work, work, and more work. I didn’t even think about girls as I was convinced that I wasn’t interested in them. But now when I look back, I think I was really just too shy to admit I wanted a girlfriend. By the time I was 21, all of my best friends were dating. I was the only guy without a girlfriend. I was a little depressed and thought there must be something wrong with me. So I started going out with my buddies to pick up girls at nightclubs, etc. There were lots of bars and clubs near campus and they were always filled with hot college girls. I didn’t really hook up with anyone, but I did have a couple of first dates. I spent so much money on these girls lol…like most of the money I made from my part-time job. (Good thing my parents were paying for college lol!) Heck I even called a limo once. A redhead gave me her phone number and agreed to let me take her out and I actually picked her up in a limo and took her to a fancy Italian restaurant. I thought I would wow her for sure because I had so much style. I had a great time. I THOUGHT it was killer date. Heck, she was smiling the whole time. But then she was always “busy” when I called her…and a few weeks later I knew she didn’t like me. I was frustrated as hell. Valentines was coming and I didn’t have a girlfriend. Marius: What began your transformation? Michael: When I got out of college, I found a temporary job. Around that time, my high school crush graduated from college and came back home too. So we started hanging out…but unfortunately she still had a boyfriend. Well, we started hanging out more and more…and my feelings for her grew stronger and stronger. A few months later…after a Halloween party…I couldn’t resist anymore (I was a bit drunk) and so I told her about my feelings towards her. She was a bit shocked and said she had only thought of me as a friend and asked me to

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never bring it up again. Then she stopped talking to me all together. I was hurt and depressed. During this time, I came across your dating tips newsletter. I didn’t even really know what it was. I was searching for dating articles on google and somehow found my way onto your site. Anyway, a week into reading your newsletter I decided to send you an email question about Jenny. Not sure if you still remember that email since you answer so many a day lol…but anyway, you emailed me back and basically screamed at me for acting like an idiot. I really didn’t expect that. To be honest, I didn’t agree with most of the things you said about me anyway. (But now I know what you said were VERY true. I should have listened then.) A few weeks later, my crush finally answered my call. Turned out she was sad because she had broken up with her boyfriend. We started hanging out again around Christmas time. I even went to her family’s house. (Well, I sorta knew them from childhood anyway.) I thought things were going well for me, so I asked her if she would consider becoming my girlfriend since she was single again. She said she “wasn’t ready for a relationship” yet and that’s why she “couldn’t promise anything.” I was hurt but respected her decision. Meanwhile, the “Dating Tips” emails kept pouring into my mailbox LOL! I deleted some of them, but read some of them. Eventually I said “Fuck it” and decided to pay the forty bucks for the ebook. Two hours later, I was smacking myself in the head. The book was pretty short back then…only like 100 pages…I think it was version 1 or something LOL…but still, it described all the little mistakes I had made with Jenny. Anyway, I emailed you a second time and you gave me a few ideas on how to change my attitude and get into a more sexual mode instead of just chasing her as a friend. 4 Copyright 2004 - Marius Panzarella - All Rights Reserved

So I did just that…and I guess that was the beginning of the transformation. It was the moment I changed my attitude. I shouldn’t dwell on this …so I’ll keep this short. I lost my virginity a few days later. It was such a surprise lol. It almost seemed like an accident. I took her bowling and teased her about being a bad bowler. Then we went for food and I grabbed her hand on the way. She didn’t even resist it lol! Then we rented a movie and went back to my place…and we started cuddling…and before I knew it I was kissing her neck and making out with her like your book had shown me. I ended up going out with Jenny for almost 2 months. But something funny than happened: I lost interest in her. The real Jenny was a lot different than the Jenny I had always fantasized about. There was a great spark when we started going out…but it soon went away. We went out for another couple of weeks before we finally broke up. I was sad and relieved at the same time. Not because I felt bad about the breakup or anything, but because I had spent so many years chasing after an empty dream. After the breakup with her, I emailed you again and you gave me some encouraging words. So…I finally decided to reassess my life. I remember saying to myself, “Okay. I’m 25 now. What do I want?” I decided I wanted to start “living” life like you called it. I bought a gym pass and started working out. I also re-read your ebook and started picking women up. It wasn’t easy at first. I did bump into many, many walls. But after a few weeks it just became easier and easier to chat up any girl. I also began to finally understand what you meant by having the “player’s attitude”. I would say my game had improved within three months of using your stuff in the real world. Flirting and teasing women actually became part of my personality. I could chat up any girl, any time. 5 Copyright 2004 - Marius Panzarella - All Rights Reserved

Marius: So how’s your love life now? Michael: Lol. I think I’ve dated more women in the past 2 years than most guys have in their entire lifetimes. I’ve also become picker with the girls I sleep with in the past few months. The 4 girls that I am seeing casually right now…one is a model…that’s the girl I have been seeing the most. Another one is a college girl. The third one is a bartender…and the 4th one is a hot friend “with benefits” that I’ve been sleeping with regularly for about a year now. I don’t even bother to have one-night stands anymore. In fact, I’m terrified of STD’s. I like to have a few dates before I finally drop my pants. Once you have a regular supply of women…you won’t really care about one-night stands anymore. Also…I like girls that are smart and have good personalities. I want girls with great personalities that do not nag or whine or pull out any of their stupid women bullshit on me. Marius: How do you manage dating more than one woman at a time? Do they know about each other? Michael: Well, I make it clear that I do not have any intention of getting tied down any time soon. I’ve already wasted like 10 years of my life chasing after one girl and that didn’t get me anywhere, did it? So now I just want to make up for all the lost time and have some fun. The bartender is bisexual so she really doesn’t mind. I’ve had a couple of 3somes with her actually. She has even helped me pick up women before…and she has a couple of “girlfriends” of her own. The model is my primary girlfriend. But she’s been acting bratty lately (long story…let’s not get into it) so I am thinking about dropping her. The college girl is a girl I met just three weeks ago. I think I like her the most. I was actually out with the bartender when I met her lol. All of these girls know that I am not “ready for a relationship” yet…and they “understand”…just like I used to “understand” when Jenny told me she “wasn’t ready for a relationship yet”. 6 Copyright 2004 - Marius Panzarella - All Rights Reserved

It’s funny, actually. I’ve realized in the last year or so that when a woman REALLY likes you, she will act EXCATLY like the “needy guys” that I used to be and try to do ANYTHING to please you. It’s really interesting. Of course…there are some girls that couldn’t stand me fooling around with other women and broke off with me after a few weeks. I respect their decision. Fair is fair. If it’s not what they want, then it’s their own choice to leave. I know what I want and I won’t settle for anything else. Marius: What kind of success rate do you have nowadays…and how much has it improved since you first got into the game? How many walls did you bump into on the way? Michael: Lol. It took me a while to get it in the beginning…back when I was trying to pick up girls in college. I was shot down like almost 100 percent of the time. After I got your ebook things went MUCH easier, as I was finally able to review my game in an objective manner. Now I would say my success rate is much higher. I haven’t kept any statistics or anything so I don’t know my “rate” of success. In fact, I don’t care about statistics. All I care about is that I can get 10-20 numbers a week and 3-4 girls in bed every week whenever I want to. Marius: So what do you do when a woman turns you down? Michael: I just walk. I don’t really care. I just move on. When you have a whole collection of women you can call whenever you want to (I don’t like calling women though…), you don’t really care anymore. It’s her loss, not mine. There will ALWAYS be hotter and more beautiful women in this world. Besides, I always use the flirt test you’ve taught me anyway. So women can never really “reject” me. I can sometimes flirt with 20-30 women a day. Of course, nothing’s going to happen with most of 7 Copyright 2004 - Marius Panzarella - All Rights Reserved

them. But I don’t care. It’s fun to make women feel good and it’s really fun to tease them and make them think about you. It feels great to be popular with the ladies. Marius: You mentioned that flirting has become part of your personality. Well, how did that happen? A lot of readers are worried that if they start flirting with women, they won’t be “themselves” anymore. What do you think about that? Michael: I used to feel the same…back when I was a big loser with Jenny. But the more I flirted with women with the exercises you’ve given me, the more I realized how NATURAL flirting was to me. I guess the key is that you have to “do it”. You have to understand that it is not evil or manipulative to make a woman feel good. I now see flirting as just a way of finding more information about a woman. The more I tease a girl, the more I learn about them. And the more I know about them, the easier it becomes for me to win her heart. I guess I have a very curious mind, so flirting really fits well into my personality. I mean…sometimes I feel I am a “love detective”. I can find out what a woman REALLY wants by just flirting with her and teasing her with little questions. I just love it when a woman hits me playfully and pretend she’s pissed at me after I’ve teased her…because I KNOW that I’ve just hit a good spot. I love thinking, “Ah-ha! She really likes me…” Marius: Another popular topic among my readers is confidence. What do you think about this topic? Michael: Knowledge. Like you say all your time in your newsletters. However, I think it’s even MORE important to actually go out and apply the things you teach. For example, I was on your newsletter for a while but did not do anything. That’s also why I didn’t see many improvements with my 8 Copyright 2004 - Marius Panzarella - All Rights Reserved

dating life till a few months after I downloaded your ebook. Sure, I was smacking my head when I read it. But I was still involved with Jenny then and didn’t really get outside of my own little bubble. Once I started applying the techniques I learned…my success rate improved dramatically. That gave me a BIG boost in my confidence. And once all the little pieces came together, I felt like I was a sexy Greek God to women. So I guess it’s all about giving yourself that initial push and then letting that momentum build upon itself. A month into trying your stuff out, I was so obsessed with the idea of improving myself and my game that my whole life evolved around personal development. I woke up early to go to the gym every morning. I listened to audio books on the bus. I started playing squash. I started working even harder with my freelance programming business to make money. I also started partying more and having more of a social life. And you know what? I feel I’m more alive and confident than I’ve ever been in my entire life. I know I can walk to any hot woman without feeling insecure about myself. Because I KNOW what I am capable of. I KNOW I am hot shit. I KNOW I can make her wet in her panties. I KNOW I can have her screaming out my name and moaning loudly as I pin her hands to the headboard and give her the time of her life. Marius: What is your favorite trick with women? Michael: I like to challenge women and then have them hit on me. Sometimes I totally shock women with the things I say. Like I can poke fun at what a girl is wearing or make fun of her boobs, etc. Then I shake my head in disappointment and let them try to win me back. The whole time, I just keep thinking, “You really like me. Just say it, just say it you little girl.” This comes out in my voice tone and it really throws women off because they can FEEL I am just teasing them even though I am challenging them verbally. So they start to panic and

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break down their bitch shields. Then they just start acting like “wussy guys” lol. Marius: What is your favorite thing to do in bed? Michael: I love to make my women beg. You want it? You gotta say “pretty please” LOL! It works well…much better than asking her for permission like most guys do. Marius: Do you have any closing comments for my readers? Michael: Take action now, man. I wasted 10 years of my life because I did not get this part of my life figured out. Man…if I had learned about this stuff when I was 16 or 19 or 20…I wouldn’t have bumped into so many walls and wasted so much time with my life. Don’t be afraid of positive changes in your life. I was reluctant to take any risks because I was afraid of losing what I had…which wasn’t much at all now that I look back at it. In fact…I didn’t even have a proper love life to “risk”. I’ve wasted so much time doing the WRONG things. Real life isn’t like “Superman”. You can’t just fly around the world and turn the clock back lol. Once a day has passed, it has passed. Every time you don’t approach someone you like, you’re really risking a possible relationship…or at least a good time in bed in my case. So go out and live life. That’s the best advice I can give to your readers. REALLY live life and make it worthwhile. I know this is good advice. I know it is because I am following it myself – and I am loving it too. Marius: Thank you for your time, Michael! Note: If you’re interested in being interviewed, please send Marius an email at [email protected] For more information on the Smart Dating System, please go to: http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/ebook.html 10 Copyright 2004 - Marius Panzarella - All Rights Reserved

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